Perspective Shifted

Happy Wednesday!

As we are only one week away from Thanksgiving (my very favorite holiday!), I have spent a lot of time this week thinking about things that I am thankful for. Every year, it seems to me, my list is mostly the same. I am thankful for my family and my friends and... blah blah blah all of the other cookie cutter answers.

Earlier this week, however, I was challenged and inspired to shift my perspective and find ways to be thankful for the things that I usually grumble about during this time of year. Some of these are my own, some are borrowed from others.

I am thankful for a full calendar of events and activities, because it means that I have a job and friends.
I am thankful for student loan bills, because it means that I was able to get a great education.
I am thankful for the clothes that might be a little snug, because it means I have more than enough to eat.
I am thankful for the housework that needs doing, because it means I have a home.
I am thankful for all of the complaining I hear about the government, because it means we have freedom of speech.
I am thankful for the people who push my buttons and force me out of my comfort zone, because they make me into a better, more patient, more understanding person.
I am thankful for the parking spot at the far end of the lot, because it means that I have transportation, and the ability to walk.
I am thankful for my heating bill, because it means I am warm.
I am thankful for the never-ending loads of laundry, because it means I have clothes to wear.
I am thankful for having to take the dog out, in the middle of the night, in the cold, because it means that I am a good mommy.
I am thankful for that one annoying Christmas song that is overplayed on the radio, because it means I can hear.
I am thankful for weariness at the end of the day, because it means I have been productive.
I am thankful for broken hearts and mourning losses, because it means I have loved others.
I am thankful for slightly intrusive friends and family, because it means that others love me.
I am thankful for 14-hour car rides, because it means I am able to be home for the holiday.
I am thankful for the grumpy people out Christmas shopping, because they remind me to check my own attitude. 
I am thankful for the stress of gift giving, because it means I am being thoughtful of others.
I am thankful for arguments with others, because it means that I am passionate about what I believe.
I am thankful for having to ask forgiveness (probably after said argument), because it means that I understand that seeking and granting true forgiveness are the only ways to heal brokenness.

... and especially this year, I am thankful for all of my children, hyped up on candy canes and cookies, who ask me a million questions, make messes, and often require my undivided attention, because it means that I am in relationship with them and have the opportunity to teach them about loving God and loving people. And, because I get to learn from them every day how to have the faith and love of a child. There are few greater gifts in my life than that.

I pray this week, as we head into a season of Thanksgiving and Advent, that God will move in our hearts and shift our perspectives so that we will find the many blessings God has given us, even when they are disguised in something that we might consider a difficulty or burden.